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10 things about my lolita bubble

Without further adieu, lets start!


Yes, I am watching Sailor Moon nowadays.

  1. Lolita fashion is one of my autistic “special interests”. My obsession with it is not as huge as it was about a year ago, but I still find it to be a very relaxing interest. Looking through some lolita outfit pictures, browsing TaoBao, Bodyline and Innocent world websites, thinking about new outfits, altering my dresses, making a Lolita accessory or just stroking my garments has a very soothing effect on me. Sometime, even looking at a picture of a dress can really calm me down and even give me a spoon or two.

    Green Garden Chiffon JSK By Magic Tea Party Look at it, doesn't it make you feel happy?

    Green Garden Chiffon JSK By Magic Tea Party
    Look at it, doesn’t it make you feel happy?

  2. My local community is not really big, but it is quite diverse, including people with different sexual and romantic orientations, Trans and non-binary folks, disabled people, kinky people, people of color, immigrants and also some hetero-cis people too. The community is quite accepting, and most of the time there is little to no drama.
  3.  In my bubble, I don’t really notice people staring at me while I wear Lolita. I know some people do because I am told by my sister that people stare. I just don’t notice.
  4. I wear lolita to kinky places and parties (and parties in general), and people really like it and are very respectful.
    Some of my friends think that I look quite sexy while wearing lolita, and as long as they are respectful towards me, I even enjoy it. I don’t find lolita fashion as sexual, but if others do, and they understand I don’t see it as sexual, all is well.

    Canon EOS 20D009-1

    Photo by Barak Brudo. Skirt by Bodyline, everything else is offbrand.

  5. I find it weird that people are excited about my hand made embroidered accessories. For me, embroidery is just like drawing, but with thread and needle.
  6. In my local community JSK without a blouse or a bolero is considered to be acceptable Lolita coord during the summer, because it is really really hot here.  Although it is considered acceptable, it is not a common view.
  7. I was never told anything about Halloween, because it is not celebrated in Israel. Though comments about Purim are pretty common…
    Also, being called “snow white” is something that happens here a lot, even if you wear all black.


    In this, you will be called Snow White for sure! (Dress by Infanta)

  8. During summer I wash my blouses after every use. I can’t imagine how it is even possible not to do that…
  9. In my lolita bubble, I am known to be “The one who is obsessed with green”. If it is green, and it is lolita, probably it is in my wishlist. The magic tea party dress from before is actually one of my dream dresses (and I am lucky to own it too).
  10. I usually wear classic lolita, but Gothic and Old School are also among my favorites. And when I wear sweet lolita, it is always green (not mint green, mind you. It is nice, but I prefer more natural shades of green).


Thanks for reading!


30 Days of Lolita Challenge!

Apparently, I don’t have enough going on my life right now (and I don’t want even to start talking about all the unfinished projects I am working on) because I decided to try out the 30 Days of Lolita challenge. Yay!

I am not going to post every day Because the fact that I manage somehow to eat 3 meals almost every day is a miracle by itself.
I will link to the challenge posts every time I write one, and I hope I will end up doing at least half of them.

Now, please tell me – what are the posts you are most looking forward to read in the challenge?

The list:

  1. 10 things about your lolita bubble.
  2. 10 things you love in lolita.
  3. 10 things you hate in lolita.
  4. 10 different kinds of food you like.
  5. 10 items from your wishlist.
  6. 10 things you can’t live without in lolita.
  7. 10 people who inspire your lolita style.
  8. 10 songs that inspire you for lolita.
  9. 10 things you will never do in lolita.
  10. What’s in your bag?
  11. One day in your lolita life in pictures.
  12. A picture of yourself before lolita came in to your life.
  13. A picture of your favorite sweets.
  14. A picture of your dream item.
  15. A picture of your last lolita purchase.
  16. Your outfit for the day.
  17. What do you want more than anything right now?
  18. A picture of your favorite lolita style.
  19. What’s in your make-up bag?
  20. A picture of a lolita friend.
  21. Your favorite fictional lolita.
  22. A picture of your room.
  23. A picture of your handwriting.
  24. A picture of you from a meet.
  25. Your favorite lolita themed artwork.
  26. Your Facebook profile picture.
  27. One song that fits your favorite lolita style.
  28. A picture of the perfect lolita location.
  29. A picture of a lolita you would love to meet for real.
  30. A photo of yourself taken today and 3 good things that’s happened over the last 30 days.

Wish me luck and success!


Photo by: Assaf Sagi